Upgrade server deps (#10017)

* remove unused apn lib and upgrade moment-recur

* upgrade validator

* upgrade got

* request -> got

* fix validation

* fix tests

* upgrade nodemailer

* fix unit tests

* fix webhook tests, upgrade express-validator (using legacy api)

* upgrade js2xmlparser

* update misc packages

* fix linting

* update packages

website/server/controllers/top-level/dataexport.js

@@ -144,7 +144,12 @@ api.exportUserDataXml = {
       'Content-Type': 'text/xml',
       'Content-disposition': 'attachment; filename=habitica-user-data.xml',
     });
-    res.status(200).send(js2xml('user', userData));
+    res.status(200).send(js2xml.parse('user', userData, {
+      cdataInvalidChars: true,
+      declaration: {
+        include: false,
+      },
+    }));
   },
 };